Just like, It’s hard to get into shape without hitting the gym; if you want your dating life to rock you need to make an effort and create ‘space to date’.
Hayley Quinn: Dating & Relationship expert.
If your dating life is exactly the same as it was last year then use my 3 quick tips to de-clutter your dating life and clear room to meet someone in time for Feb 14th.
1. Create space to date: Sounds obvious, but how many weeks have you let slip by without actually devoting anytime to meeting anyone? Busy careers, long commutes and hanging with the same group of friends week in week out means it’s super easy to forget to find time to meet anyone.
If you’re not going to a new event a week, firing off some messages online or changing your route home it’s official, you may never meet anyone!
2. What do you want from your date?: Another great way to waste your time is by investing it in relationships you know aren’t going anywhere. Yes that text flirtation with that guy in Oz/ that woman who has a boyfriend is FUN but it’s not going anywhere. Refocus your efforts on creating a new situation.
3. Quit procrastinating: If you’ve been waiting for the right moment before you make your move, quit making excuses! There really is no time like the present… that is unless you want to see the person of your dreams swiped away by someone who was quicker off the mark. So take some action, get the guy/ girl or move on to someone who wants their feet to be swept away.
So ditch the January dating blues and start taking positive action to create enough space in your diary for the dates to come rolling in.
Hayley Quinn is a relationship & dating expert, helping men and women to reach their dating goals. If you want to find out more visit www.hayleyquinn.com.
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