LMFAO were sexy and they knew it and a certain Rod Stewart had to ask the world if he was sexy because he simply wasn’t sure. We are not not sure – just what the hell is sexy these days?
We scrape past the fake tan and cover up the beach bodies to list the top things both sexes really find sexy about each other…and it’s not the stereotypical stuff you think!
Guys find:
Brains sexy: Lovestruck obviously boasts some of the hottest single ladies on the planet but watch out ladies, it seems those fickle male types are now after your brains too. Studies have shown guys are attracted to intelligence (think George and London-based lawyer Amal) and British Scientists believe it’s because modern guys are finally seeing women as equal so are preferring good conversation and a higher IQ to a higher hemline.
Vulnerability sexy: Ever mess up the punchline to a joke? Call him when you’re drunk to pour your heart out rather incoherently? Never quite achieve that flawless appearance you’re after? It’s ok! He loves this about you! He thinks it’s cute and very sexy. Phew.
Maternal instinct is sexy: Yep, modern man is more paternal than ever (apparently) and though he won’t be sizing up your hips for child-bearing potential on a first date (we don’t think) pulling a face like you’re sucking a lemon when he mentions kids is a) not sexy b) a sure way to never get to date two.
Bringing work home is sexy (really?): Maybe it goes back to finding clever sexy because he laps up seeing you workin’ that lap-top. Looking all efficient and commanding in work mode turns him on. Fake a phone call and yell, “Fox, where the hell are you? I am losing MILLIONS! You got me into this and you sure as hell better get me out or the only job you’ll ever have on the Street is SWEEPING IT! You hear me?” Putty in your hands.
Girl’s find:
You paying attention sexy: Listen up! Yes, you in the shirt. Holding her eye and not looking around the room when she shares feelings or thoughts is winning you ample brownie points in the sexy stakes. It shows her you care and have time for her in your life.
Animal lovers are sexy: Love a pooch? Cried when your hamster died? Can’t watch Marley & Me without balling (neither can we) It’s crucial this information is shared not hidden as she finds this incredibly attractive – the grown man with his kind, caring vulnerable side. It’s sexy.
You being thoughtful is sexy: Just taking note of what she likes day-to-day is sexy: whether she takes sugar in her coffee, likes a certain type of flower, film, what makes her laugh, what she has for lunch…it goes back to paying attention, remember? Surprise her with little gestures and she’ll tell her mates and they’ll love you too…you go guy!
Treating others well is sexy: How you treat others on a date is a good indication of whether or not you’d make ‘nice boyfriend’ material. Clicking your fingers at waiters/waitresses or never saying thank-you is rude. Rude is never sexy. Rude is reserved for people who share the short name for Richard.
Saying ‘you’re right’ is sexy: Imagine, you’re having a disagreement and you suddenly and calmly say, ‘you’re right.’ Now, most guys will think this makes him appear weak. Ohhh not so for women. These words will stop her in her tracks. She’ll literally want to bear your children there and then. Good job he’s paternal.
See, bet you’re sexier than you think…
What do you find sexy? Tell us @lovestruck
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