At Lovestruck we’re often giving words of advice on what to put in your profile to make it pop. Best photos, best tone of voice, most popular words to use etc etc. So now we’re listing the eight things you don’t mention if you want to get dated…
1. Never diss online dating. Insult the method, you insult the entire online dating family (best Godfather impression we ever did) Don’t say a friend forced you to join or that you thought you’d better give it a go as a last resort, it just tells people your heart’s not in it. Oh and hey, don’t bite the hand that might be feeding you your future soul mate!
2. Never mention sex. No sexual desires or fantasies, just don’t. It’s not appropriate for dating sites, at least not this one…
3. Don’t Lie. Don’t tell porkies about your height, age or weight. Don’t pretend to have a better job or salary than you do, or that you’re seeking long-term commitment if you’re not. You don’t have to deceive in order get a dated. Be liked for being you, it’s a good start.
4. Don’t moan: Singles don’t want to date a negative habitual moaner, they want a sunbeam. Don’t bemoan your single status, any bad first dates you’ve had, the cost of living, politics and the failings of the local council. Keep it upbeat and chatty, people, and focus on all the great things you have to offer.
5. Don’t be vague or too clichéd: Trust us, you’re really not the only person who’s ‘fun-loving’ ‘loves to travel’ and has ‘eclectic’ musical taste. It’s a bit lazy if we’re honest…more effort required please! You wanna stand out from the crowd, right?
6. Don’t mention an ex in a profile. Not only does it smack of poor taste, old bean, it’s makes it clear you’re not fully over them (think Lauren Goodger/Mark Wright and cringe) You hopefully wouldn’t mention an ex so soon into your first-date conversation (take a break from the love scene if you would) and so the same rules apply to online etiquette too.
7. Don’t ramble. Once you get writing, you may find you can’t stop. That’s good, you have lots to say but save it for your first date, ay? Studies show that shorter profiles get more views. Be quick, captivating witty, positive and interesting. Three small paragraphs maximum. Anything longer…you’re…losing us…
8. Don’t list what you want: Don’t demand love, worship, and adoration or list the qualities you think you “deserve.” It’s not only slightly freaky but borders on narcissistic and that’s a sure way to never gettin’ dated.
What do you never wish to read in someone’s profile? Tell us @lovestruck
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